By Caroline AondoHembafan
Lesbianism is the sexual and romantic desire between females. A female person is called a lesbian when she expresses her sexual and romantic desire towards another female.
Some have identified Dysfunctional family atmosphere, Emotional insecurities,Genetic disorder Physical flaws,etc as the cause(s) of Lesbianism.
The first commandment given to man was in the book of Genesis chapter 1 vs 28,and it was an instruction to both the man and woman to multiply and fill the earth. It was not given to a woman and woman, but Adam and eve, who were male and female beings. the man and woman are suppose to mate, and not a man to man(Homosexuality) or woman to woman. By the laws of nature all the living creatures are born with the inborn instinct to mate with opposite sex.
Some Lesbians argue that the Bible never talked about Lesbianism, but only condemned Homosexuality. This argument is however funny, and lacking substance because, the Biblical times often counted men, but does not mean women were not part of it. For instance, the feeding of 5,000 men by Jesus Christ with Five loaves of Bread and two fishes in Matthew 14:13-21 only mentioned 5000 men,stating clearly "Besides the women and children."
Some account only mention 5,000 men. So if you are reading the account that mentioned just 5,000 men, will you say women were not part of the crowd that was fed? Is it possible for the Bible to condemn Homosexuality and accept Lesbianism? Is it still not people of the same sex lusting after each other?
In Chapter 19 of the same Genesis, we are told of the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah,two cities that were known for immorality. A city where men were lusting after people of the same sex, to the point they men wanted to mate with the angels that came to visit Lot. Events in the city of Sodom have given rise to an English word sodomy, used in sodomy laws to describe sexual "crime against natures", namely anal or oral sex(particularly homosexuality, Lesbianism ), or bestiality(sex with animals).
WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS ABOUT LESBIANISM
The most specific passage that addresses lesbian relationships is found in
Romans 1:26-27a : "For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another." It is clear in this context that lesbian relationships are mentioned. The note that "the men likewise gave up natural relations" also shows the parallel with the actions of the women mentioned in the passage. So the Bible also condemns Lesbianism, same way it condemns Homosexuality.
A PSYCHOLOGICAL DISORDER /FORM OF MADNESS /GENETIC DISORDER
Madness is simply any deviation from normal human behavior. It is only normal for a man to desire a woman, and a woman a man. Let's also not forget, the male sex hormone(Testosterone) is naturally attracted to the female sex hormones(progesterone, Oestrogen ), same goes for the female to the male.
For a woman to now desire a woman, it definitely means there must be a genetic disorder, but in the case of the Lesbianism been practiced among ladies In this part of the world,which also Led to the promulgation of the Anti-Gay law, women who have sexual relationships with men or are even married tend to be involved in this practice, this in turn makes nonsense of role of genetic disorder among Lesbians, it's more now like a choice.
Long ago, Psychiatric medicine classified Lesbianism, Homosexuality, Beastiality, etc as forms of mental illness. Which way you look at it, be it a choice or genetic disorder, it's madness,and if you look at as spiritual, then it's a spell or curse.
WHY LESBIANISM MUST BE TAMED
Most Lesbians usually start the act at the adolescence age, especially once that bath together in groups. As they grow, a good number of them discover themselves and don't even wish to be touched by their female folks. Some who can't let go or who are so caged by the Spirit of sodomy even continue with it to their matrimonial homes. This category of Lesbians are Lesbians by choice or mental disorder and not genetic disorder.
A Lesbian by genetic disorder will never have anything to do with the Male sex, but the ones by choice can be married and still go maintain their Lesbian partner.
Married Lesbians who can be referred to as Lesbians by choice tend to keep alot of single girls as friends. They call and chat with them 24-hours, have less time or feelings for their husbands, even when they have children together. Married women who are Lesbians are fond of visiting their female partners, no matter the distance. I wonder what they tell their husband's before traveling. They parade themselves publicly as close friends with their romantic partners. They tell the single ladies that it is safer, as it does not have any risk of pregnancy, and it's freedom from men.
QUESTIONS FOR LESBIANS
Would you have existed if your mother was Sexually involved with another woman? Secondly,are you aware you cannot have kids and even if you do want to have a baby,you have to either adopt or approach a sperm donor to mother a baby? Are you also aware These children are fated to grow as 'fatherless' kids?
SOLUTION
In July 2015,we read and watched the confession of Mrs Blessing Okoma,a woman who abandoned her five children for Lesbianism. She openly confessed this simply because she was delivered from the spirit, Curse and spell that held her to Lesbianism. So even if it's spiritual, there is a way out.
For those who are into it by choice, you need to see a counsellor and also pray for forgiveness, for the price of sodomy is heavy. Avoid those who lured you into it or who you indulge in it with.
Don't say you don't care because you are a man, you may be reading this with a woman who is a lesbian beside you.